The Forgotten Power

"Life is a choice" is a cliche forgotten.

Choice is the power of basic differences between humans and other species. The other species is the slave of impulse instinct, where any impulse arises, it will being follow. While humans, have the power to choose between impulse and his common sense.

Unfortunately, we often forget about this power.

The word "must" is the enemy of choice.

• I must have may love her!
•  must kiss him
• I have to do x!
• I have, i have, i have ..

Every word must is a weakness.

Fox said so should choose, it will be:

• I choose to be able to love her!
• I choose to kiss him
• I choose to do x!
• I choose, choose, choose ..

Does not it sound better? ..
Does it sounds more powerful?

When someone says "should", she unconsciously already put a very heavy mental burden. That led her to feel heavy, stressed and overwhelmed. Even then made often force to be good will to himself and to others.

You can tau where people are many will cost of mind and where free spirits. You know from a distance just by looking at their body language and energy, without them first say anything to you.

You also will be automatically feel overwhelmed when near a person who a lot of mental burden, and auto feel relieved when located near the free spirit.

We are in-doctrine community to insist on and a "must have". It was a twit.

You must not do anything because all is a choice.

Yes, every choice there is a risk and its consequences, but at least you use your strength compared to other species like slaves impulse.

When you approach a woman with mental must, you'll get a different response when you approach a woman with mental choose. When you say "i have to get it", then you are not aware of the forces and manipulate situation. It is like an insurance agent or MLM (multi level marketing) filled with tricks to "trap" you in order to join so member.

Yes, you can just get her to the "necessity" you, but after that, you go back must maintain its love, and must be persuaded, and must follow every whim of her, and "necessity" her other, because if not, you will lose his.

Meanwhile, when you choose to approach it, then you do not have a mental burden for must get it .. You will seem more free and happy .. And that's where his attraction.

People who have many choices will be much more interesting than the multitude of regulations and necessity.

Starting today, saying "i choose to approach it" .. Then when the woman you approached to act arrogantly, saying "i choose to leave him".

"what? Its not approach a woman if we must get her? "

No!

Your life is not have to get a woman,

Your life is not have to get rich,

Your life is not a person must be seen,

Your life is not a must famous,

Your life is about happiness.

You trying to get the woman, trying to become rich, famous strive, strive seen people, bottom line is because you want happy.

The saddest thing is that you spend your whole life to the pursuit of women, become rich, and those deemed to be famous, but does not go happy you.

It was like to work and serve indefinitely without pay.

Salary real, return of your actual effort is happiness.

So why fight for something that does not make you happy? Something that has no meaning.

When you choose to approach a woman and the woman instead arrogant, choose to go and approach the more respect you. You do not have to prove yourself.

When you choose a job but did not enjoy it, choose to stop work and choose a better job you can enjoy.

"and what if you can’t meets girl again?" or "so what if you can't work again?"

Do not worry!

Just do it!

You are smart enough to be able to resolve all your problems if you do not panic, calm and able to think clearly.

One of the challenges when you use the power of choice is coming from those who still have the mindset of "must". They will assess you as a person who "quitter" because for them, you have to be act like them.

Leave it alone.

Paradox her, when you use the power to choose and liberate your soul from a variety of must, then you will be more flexible and dynamic. Instead you will be more successful than those who are full of must.

You will find the strength and unique advantages and is suitable for yourself. You will write your own rules, and change it whenever you want and need.

All is a choice.

When all is a choice, you will learn to correctly without should choose impose himself with the mental burden. You will walk with freedom of spirit and the success that you define yourself by your choice.

All is a choice, including where you should not believe everything i write.